I just got done reading a negative post on another blog and here I go with mine. SORRY!
Remember my "friend" J who keeps hurting me? Apparently, she has been saying junk about me because our mutual friend "A" won't even write to me directly, and I don't have a problem with HER. Anyway, J forwarded me an email from A (who is moving tomorrow night and asked all of us to stop by if we wanted). J adds onto the end of the email that if I wanted to be at A's house at a different time than her, that I could go before or after she (J) does. What gives? It sounds like a divorce or something! It sounds like J is mad at ME (????). I didn't do anything to her. She is the one who keeps blabbing all the private stuff I shared in bible study (even though she doesn't think she did anything wrong and thus won't apologize). My husband told me to just not worry about it, go see A if I want to (or don't go if I don't want to), that J is desperately trying to get the power back, and if I ignore her email (he said) I'll still have it. This takes the cake, though, her slamming me for being mad and making people feel sorry for her (like she didn't do anything to hurt ME). I think I will just write A directly someday and tell her I will mail the CD's she let me borrow to her new place. Then J won't have anything to be smug about.
If you want to stop by and see A then do it and do it when you feel like doing it. You shouldn't have to try and avoid her (unless you want to). If she comes at the same time then let her deal with it. You shouldn't have to act like you did something wrong when you didn't.
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