Broke up

My oldest son came over for dinner tonight.  He said he didn't want to tell me last Sunday but he and his girlfriend broke up.  She apparently is listening to her friends and they don't think she should "waste" her last year of high school tied down in a relationship.  Hmm, interesting, my son spent all four years of high school in a relationship with HER!

I'm not mad at her.

I love her.

I'm so pissed off at my husband right now too, because up until about a year ago, he never "allowed" her to come over!  My son would go over there (she lived with her uncle next door to us till her mother got out of rehab).  Every single day he went over there and she couldn't come over here.  And then the uncle transferred jobs and moved out of town (after her mother got an apartment and a job).  And then all of a sudden it was okay for my son's girlfriend to come over.  Apparently my husband just didn't like the uncle.  So I wish I could've loved her for the first three years too!!!  I hate my husband right now!!!!

My son has already went on two dates with some girl he "went out with" in junior high.

I'm hurting so bad.  My therapist had to move my appointment to tomorrow instead of Wednesday because of his Thanksgiving travel, so I guess at least it's comforting knowing I get to see him.